one last fling with a new car
I called him back after seeing the fax. This is the next trim line up from what I want, and also has some extras I don't want and am not interested in paying for. That's ok, he said; my boss is willing to make a sweet deal. (He actually used the word "sweet".) So I agreed to pay them a visit tonight. (Aside: I know that this same salesman sold Dani a higher trim line for the price of the lower one strictly due to availability. The salesman, of course, knows that I know this.)
It's a good car, but one of the pricy "features" is actually an anti-feature. The fancy stereo includes some multi-speaker setup that results in speakers in the hatch, cutting slightly into the cargo area. But I decided that this wouldn't be a show-stopper by itself. (Another feature that many of the cars had is a show-stopper; I do not want the hassle of a moonroof. By the way, what's the difference between a moonroof and a sunroof anyway?)
So we sat down to talk price. He got out a sheet and wrote down the MSRP for that trim line. I said "ahem", politely, and told him the invoice price of the car I had set out to buy. He then asked me "what number do you want to end up at?" and I said "Kelly says my trade-in is worth X, Edmunds says people are paying Y for the car I want, and I want the difference". (Which, for context, was approximately $0 after rolling in the incentives. Hey, he asked where I wanted to be.) He said ok and headed off for the first of several conversations with his boss. (I wonder how many of those actually involve contact with the boss, rather than just disappearing into a back room for a few minutes.)
(I love the conceit there, by the way. When he's talking to you, it's clearly you and he against the miserly boss. When he's talking with the boss, of course, it's he and the boss against the miserly customer.)
He came back with a lower valuation for my trade-in and a higher suggestion for the purchase price. I actually forget what the number was here; I countered and he went away again.
This time he came back with an offer around $1000. I said no, and that I was willing to write $500 on the check. (In other words, including tax and all the various fees.) He asked me to sign a note to that effect and went away again.
This time he came back with the manager, who showed me a paper with the invoice price for the car and said she absolutely could not go lower than what they paid for it. I said that I felt for her but this was not the car I was looking to buy and I had been under the impression that they wanted to get this one off their lot and were willing to haggle. She said, essentially, not that much. Somewhere in here their price actually went up (to around $1400); there was apparently some confusion around the invoice price. Well, whatever. Somewhere along there I suggested that they still had wiggle room on the trade-in if they needed to record a higher sale price, but they asserted that they had called all their VW folks and the price they gave me was firm.
So we all said variations on "oh well" and I left. As I was about to get into my car, I heard the salesman calling my name. Would I come up $200 (really more like $350 because he switched from bottom line to price). I walked back in and we talked a bit, and he went back with "one last offer". They countered with something that was still too high, and I said no.
I told the salesman that he knows what I'm looking for, and he's free to call me if he finds it. Price incentives will come and go, and while my car will depreciate as time goes on, I said, I figure that their cars will also depreciate if they're still hanging around come August or so. He admitted that this was probably correct and said he'd call me if he found anything matching my parameters.
So, shrug. I don't regret the few hours I spent on the exercise, nor am I intersted in spending more than I deem the car to be worth. For the right car I would have been willing to go somewhat higher, but this was not the right car. I don't need a new car right now; my opinion may well change after a few more incidents with VW's unreliability, but for now I'm content to stick with what I've got if I can't get a good price.

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Moonroof slides back into the roof, a sunroof just pops up. At least, that's how it was explained to me (mine is a wierd hybrid - it does either or, depending on the button you push).
And just out of curiousity, why is it a hassle?
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And just out of curiousity, why is it a hassle?
Generally, it's one more point of failure for a feature I don't use. If, say, my steering-wheel-mounted cruise control doesn't work, that does me no harm (I just don't use it). If the functional equivalent of a hole in the roof doesn't work, it probably means I have a leak.
In this specific case, the cost of the moonroof was just enough headroom that it bothered me -- and I'm 5'3"!
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One nasty trick you can use, is to let them think they will be providing the financing for the purchase - and when you come for pickup just bring cash. They will negotiate knowing they get an unadmitted kick-back for the financing, which you then can take away.
You might find this web site (http://www.dcu.org/streetwise/auto/index.html) useful - Remar Sutton has written several books on the auto-buying system.
Usually, when they leave the room, they bug the area where you are sitting and listen to you, and watch you.
Last time they tried to play hidden authority on me, I just asked to negotiate with the manager directly. When the salesman demurred because it wasn't necessary, I asked "X is the price I intend to pay. Do you have the authority to make that deal, or not?" I got the manager.
I suspect you will never hear from them again.
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Fortunately, I had printouts from Edmunds and Kelly to refer to if I felt I was getting confused. These days, I kind of wonder who doesn't.
One nasty trick you can use, is to let them think they will be providing the financing for the purchase
Thanks. I hadn't thought about that. (I'm not sure they would have believed it in this case, but it's useful to know in general.)
Thanks for the pointer to Remar Sutton.
Usually, when they leave the room, they bug the area where you are sitting and listen to you, and watch you.
Next time I'll know to bring along a book or something, just to make it obvious that I'm not squirming. :-)
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Heh. Yeah, Boch pulled this on us when we were buying
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Sorry it's annoying. We bought our Hybrid a year ago, and experienced much of the same.
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Actually, I'm not very good at negotiating in scenarios that aren't meant to be overly adversarial. The auto industry, though, is set up on a "take them before they take you" basis, with all the sneaky tricks and obfuscation and theatrics, so I find it easy to play hardball under those circumstances.
Even so, I am mindful of the ethic that says you don't deliberately waste the salesman's time. I did not set out to do that. I wanted to have the price conversation earlier and he didn't, though, so if he's unhappy with the time he spent he has only himself to blame.
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On a related note, it was precisely 52 weeks ago (1 March 2004) that I bought Dora Sue. I was luckier than you were... we went online at the dealer's, compared the values of the car on different blue book web sites, I told them the price I was willing to pay, including temp tags but not taxes (I was buying the car in Pennsylvania and they couldn't do Virginia taxes) and the salesman took it (about $1000 below the sticker all told).
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My favorite line from bargaining -- the salesman said, "Oh, come on -- we're arguing about $300? What's $300 in a $20k deal?" Umm...how about a month of dinners? And if it's nothing, why aren't you willing to go down that amount?
Way to go, sticking to your guns. It's hard work.
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I don't understand it either. Just think "poor impulse control" and that might give you a better picture.
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In some of those cases, it's a matter of habit. Once upon a time the shopper determined that Brand A is more economical than Brand B and so always buys Brand A, never noticing that both prices have changed since then and the rule is no longer true. Sometimes generics are actually more expensive than the name brands, but people learned the "generics are cheaper" meme and now they just do it.
I don't understand it either. Just think "poor impulse control" and that might give you a better picture.
You're probably right.
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My answer to that line was "well then, take it out of your commission, if it is nothing." Suddenly it wasn't nothing anymore.
They love to point out, in financed deals, that it's like a dollar a month or something. When put that way it seems almost reasonable. When you figure the interest on that dollar a month, it's not so small anymore.
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when we went to biondi parkway ford, the manager sat one desk over. he, the salesman, and we all chatted and negotiated. then even tried to find us a ranger (one step down from what we wanted, which was an F-150 truck) that would work, what with the options we required (cruise control and a CD player; not white or tan) and the high balance on the jeep we were trading in.
of the three places we went (Day, Schultz, and Biondi), Biondi was the only place I felt comfortable. there wasn't any "back room meetings", they were willing to hunt down incentives for us, and I really felt that they were trying as hard as possible to help us. we'll go back there at the end of the year when we look again.
what ford dealership did you go to?
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I went to Day. The salesman seemed reasonable going into last night's discussions, but either he wasn't or the dealership throttled him too much. Either way, it doesn't sound like a good place for me to buy a car.
In thinking about it, I realized that they offered Dani, up front, a better deal than they were willing to haggle for with me. I'm wondering if being male is still the biggest bargaining chip with them. :-(
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Day Ford wholly unimpressed us. The salesman walked us around the lot and didn't seem to know what they had, or where, and never took us into his office. He took the attitude of "when you find a deal somewhere else come back and I'll beat it."
Yeah, I got the feeling that both Day and Schultz were catering to Dano. That's annoying.
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I just have this naive side of me that believes that when they tell me they're giving me the best deal they can, that they're telling the truth. I know, how silly of me. I just have a hard time negotiating after that.
I don't think we got a bad deal with my Accord, but I don't know that it was ideal. The truth is, I really, really, really didn't want to buy a car that night. I wanted to go and look at the Camry also, but I was so ruffled by my car dying unexpectedly pretty far from home and trying to deal with the car rght after having moved into a new house and just having started a new job that I let myself be bullied into getting it that night.
Like I said, I think we got a decent deal, and I DO like the car. I just wish I'd been better able to stick to my terms.
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I was very amicable and friendly during the entire discussion last night. I don't think going into hostile-customer mode does anyone any good. But while I was smiling and nodding I kept in mind the price I was willing to pay, and went from there. This might have been more disconcerting to them than if I'd argued, actually; I was clearly being a reasonable person, but one with a different agenda.
Oh, another thing this one did -- and so did VW last year -- was to ask up front what I wanted to pay for the car. Never give your final price there, because this will be the beginning point for haggling. I think a lot of people go into the dealership with an idea of the fair price and they cough up that number when asked. That's an invitation to be taken for hundreds of dollard (or more).
And, sadly, I think women are still at a disadvantage that has nothing to do with ability. In thinking it through, I'm pretty sure these guys offered Dani a better deal on his car. Having Seth along when you haggled probably helped even though it shouldn't have made a difference in a just world.
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According to Wikipedia, a sunroof is made of metal, a moonroof is see-through. In practice, it's a cool sounding term and a salesman will apply it however he thinks it will close the deal.
Who thinks these things up, anyway? :-)
Marketing departments. It's all part of the "Sell the sizzle, not the steak" mentality.
I wonder how many of those actually involve contact with the boss, rather than just disappearing into a back room for a few minutes.
The first one, to get the very bottom line he can go to.
I love the conceit there, by the way. When he's talking to you, it's clearly you and he against the miserly boss. When he's talking with the boss, of course, it's he and the boss against the miserly customer.
*blush!* I actually still use this technique. "I'm sorry, the evil and cruel Laurel at arms won't pass your design. Why don't you let me help you design arms that S.O.B. will pass?" It's not quite those terms, but I do try to leave the impression that it's the herald and the Scadian versus Laurel. (And I actually had Jaella's permission to do this!)
Even now, when Consumer Reports, Edmunds, and for that matter Google make it so easy, and with so many homes having internet access, people don't go in with price information? Wow.
You and I are part of the Information Generation. My parents don't even think in these terms.
In thinking about it, I realized that they offered Dani, up front, a better deal than they were willing to haggle for with me. I'm wondering if being male is still the biggest bargaining chip with them. :-(
Regretably, yes! When I was an evil real-estate agent, I was taught you worked on the husband. The wife was the obedient, docile subservient who would do as her lord and master commanded. I have to admit, once the husband was sold on buying the house, it didn't really matter what the wife's opinion was. And the broker teaching me this was a woman!
-- Dagonell
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Regretably, yes! When I was an evil real-estate agent, I was taught you worked on the husband.
Occasionally this will backfire, but presumaly not nearly as often as it works. How does the approach change when there is no husband -- i.e. the woman is shopping alone? Last year I didn't feel I was being cheated on gender by VW, but I also didn't have another data point to compare to so maybe I was. This time, I'm pretty sure I was, and the more I think about it the more certain I am that I won't return to this dealership in the future. Sure, I could bring the token male along with me, but I think instead I'll look for a dealership where it's not a necessary part of doing business.
In thinking back to our house shopping, I think either the realtor was being really subtle about it or he realized that I was the one he had to convince. (I was already a homeowner; Dani was not -- so I'd been through the process once and had a pretty good idea of what can go wrong.) I was definitely doing most of the talking in our interactions. We were presumably a fluke -- a couple where the woman appeared to be in charge of the negotiations.
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If the woman is the dominant one, you can pick up the clues quickly. Generally you watch to see who asks for who's opinion. Any job that pays commissions is always a percentage game, 95% waste of time, 5% sales.
"How does the approach change when there is no husband -- i.e. the woman is shopping alone?"
I never encountered that situation, so I couldn't tell you.
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If I just want to get something at a given price and there are no other factors, I'm competent at negotiating. If it involves other factors, though, and particularly if it involves friends, it's a lot harder. It's probably best to never engage in major financial transactions (houses, cars, etc) with friends unless you agree on an "external" algorithm up front (e.g. "we both agree to accept Kelly value on the car"). I tried to sell a house to a friend and it got messy.
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Two examples of that. An SCA friend wanted to buy my used van. I quoted her a price. She said "that seems high". I said "I did my homework, and I think it is a very fair price. If you do some homework and I'm wrong, show me and I'll lower it." After doing her homework, she agreed to the price. Happily.
My worst example of this was with a tenant who had graduated from Harvard Business School. He was starting a home-based business and was rather cash poor - I offered to let him do some painting for rent credit. I figured it would be easy.
He and his wife painted the bedroom and dining room, and presented me with a huge bill. He'd been a professional house painter before, and he charged me time and materials for himself at professional rates, and his wife at apprentice rates. (I've since repainted that apartment completely - the bill for painting it completely, with some wall repair was the same as what he charged for 2 rooms, just painting.)
He became quite irate when I suggested that it was out of the question. He'd charged me a fair rate, after all, said he.
I told him that he should find a painting contractor, perhaps his former employer, and I'd find two random contractors - we'd get estimates and I'd credit him with 3/4 of the middle price. Or we could just come to a simple agreement now and I'd credit him with market rates as I perceived them.
Suddenly a lower price seemed fair. (I've never seen a painting contractor charge time and materials before... or since.)
Unfortunately for him, I didn't let him "paint for credit" ever again. Which was the price he paid for being a jerk.