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Monica ([personal profile] cellio) wrote2005-10-04 10:25 pm

Rosh Hashana

Monday night friends from the congregation invited us for dinner, so we joined them and then everyone but Dani went to shul. This meant going to the late service, which has the more formal (and more "classical Reform") music; I prefer the music of the early service but wanted to accept the invitation. I'm glad we did accept; it was a very nice dinner and Dani got to know some of my shul friends a little better (and vice-versa).

I didn't connect so much with last night's service, but I really did this morning. At several points I felt I was truly in the presence of the divine king, and I spent a lot of time thinking about things in the past year that I ought've done differently.

My torah reading went really well, and I got many compliments -- including two people telling me that they'd gotten chills listening to me. Those are good chills; I was reading the climax of the binding of Yitzchak and trying to do it expressively. I guess I succeeded. :-) I backed off a bit when I got up there and found a mike right there in my face, only an inch or two from my mouth; I was worried about overblowing it when the angel shouts to Avraham. But still, it worked.

My rabbi's sermon this morning was good and thought-provoking, and I don't know how well I can summarize. With luck he'll publish later and if so I'll post a link, but broadly, it centered around what he called the four questions of Rosh Hashana. (So nu, you thought only Pesach gets four questions?) The first three are:

  • "Where are you?" (From the garden of Eden, right after Adam and Chava have learned that they're naked.) Do we respond as they did, looking to blame someone else for our sins?
  • "Where is your brother?" (Kayin and Hevel.) Do we improve on Kayin's "not my problem" response? (He said a lot of good things here about scope, too -- we shouldn't just be concerned with DNA-sharing family, after all.)
  • "What do you seek?" (Yosef on the way to find his brothers.)

And the final one, tying to today's portion, is: "Avraham?". This requires some elucidation. When the angel comes to stop Avraham, he says Avraham's name twice -- leading to much speculation about why. My rabbi and I discussed an interpretation in which the first is a shout (to get his attention) and the second, after that failed to work, is a more gentle "hey there, are you listening to me?" kind of question. When shouting doesn't work, calling a person gently by name sometimes does (and did here). And Avraham answered "hineni" -- "here I am". My rabbi talked a lot about listening and about being there when people call. I can't do it justice.

[livejournal.com profile] lefkowitzga came for lunch and we got to spend a couple hours chatting. That was very nice; we haven't been able to just sit down and talk in a while.

We ate:

  • challah
  • apples and honey (I used Honeycrisp and Gala apples)
  • a nice sweet Muscato wine (hey, I prefer white to red -- but more importantly, I wanted a sweet wine to go with the holiday theme, and the only reds I have on hand are toward the dry end)
  • raw carrots and cauliflower with hummus
  • brisket a la [livejournal.com profile] goljerp (hey, he's the one who taught me how to cook it other than in an oven)
  • baked acorn squash stuffed with apples and brown sugar
  • salad with broccoli, red peppers, onions, carrots, oil
  • orange cake (I find most honey cake too heavy)
  • dried fruits

I've heard a little informal talk in the congregation about possibly going to a two-day Rosh Hashana at some to-be-defined future time. If that suggestion makes its way to the worship committee it should make for some interesting discussion. There are several points of view to consider:

On the one hand, we keep one day of Rosh Hashana, just like the torah tells us to. The reason for a second day is (historically) calendar uncertainty, but that no longer applies.

On the other hand, we generally say that we follow Israeli practice on holidays, and they keep two days -- even the Reform and Masorti congregations there do, for the most part.

On the third hand, will American Reform Jews come to a second day of services? And on that same hand, are we going to get flack from the folks who think any change in the direction of more practice means we're "going Orthodox"? (Personally, I think such people miss all sorts of important points, but they too are members of the congregation.)

On the fourth hand, we should be guided by principle first; if we say "they won't come" and thus don't do it, we guarantee that they won't come. So if it's important, we should do it even if only 20 people come. That said, is it important? Open question.

[identity profile] tsjafo.livejournal.com 2005-10-05 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
Happy New Year!

[identity profile] tsjafo.livejournal.com 2005-10-05 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
Thank You!

[identity profile] aliza250.livejournal.com 2005-10-05 05:40 am (UTC)(link)
An important reason to have 2 days of Rosh HaShana - so that if the first day is Shabbat, you still get to do the Shofarot on the second day.

(Not sure if that applies to a Reform shul or not, but hey, it's a reason...)

[identity profile] aliza250.livejournal.com 2005-10-06 12:51 am (UTC)(link)
That doesn't make sense... the prohibition on carrying isn't a real issue in areas with an eruv (i.e. any Israeli city), I'd always thought it was the prohibition on using musical instruments on the Shabbat.

[identity profile] aliza250.livejournal.com 2005-10-06 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
So by that argument, disposable kazoos are OK for Shabbat. Nice to know ;-)

[identity profile] sanpaku.livejournal.com 2005-10-06 02:41 pm (UTC)(link)
You're right that it's carrying, and I believe the prohibition predates the ban on musical instrumentation on shabbat generally. I would imagine that the Reform POV about carrying, though, is that it's a non-issue.

this doesn't make much sense, but

[identity profile] sanpaku.livejournal.com 2005-10-06 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, what I'm getting at is that the same rules that say no carrying say that the object is muktzeh regardless of the rationale behind the rules. But Reform wouldn't have a category of muktzeh, as you say. The shofar isn't touched not so much because it could be carried but because it's part of a class of objects that should not be carried. Not just fences but classification of the physical world.

Anyway, the issue of carrying is Oral Torah, which is basically not accepted as binding on the community in a Reform framework. Eiruv, muktzeh, and carrying are all principles of a system that makes no sense in a Reform perspective (unlike, say, lighting a fire which is at least in the text of the Torah).

Maybe I rely too much on the Pittsburgh Platform, which is quite old, but I had thought that the basic principle was that things that could be viewed as historical accretion (oral law) rather than ethical core (some of the written law) are not binding on the community. You can choose to do something or other, but the community as a whole cannot be bound by your choice. Are there really Reform temples that make concessions in practice to traditionalist "sentiment"? (I think of the cafeteria at HUC, where there was no pretense of kashrut.)

[identity profile] jarethsgirl.livejournal.com 2005-10-05 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad everything went well for you :)

[identity profile] celebrin.livejournal.com 2005-10-05 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
I've done a 2-day Rosh Hashanah all my life.

Just thought I'd add.

L'shana tova!
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[personal profile] goljerp 2005-10-06 02:12 pm (UTC)(link)
brisket a la goljerp

Thanks. Actually, it should be attributed to my mother (and her mother, and probably her mother, which is why I'm using this usericon...)

The reason for a second day is (historically) calendar uncertainty, but that no longer applies.

I may be incorrect, but I thought the second day of Rosh Hashannah is because it's, esentially, a 2 day Rosh Chodesh. Some months are just like that; it has nothing to do with uncertainty, but rather to do with making the calendar work. (I.e. this year, Rosh Chodesh Kislev is one day; Rosh Chodesh Iyar is two.)

As you say, Israelis celebrate two days of Rosh Hashannah. The year I was there, they were all complaining because it was a Thursday-Friday Rosh Hashannah (which means, essentially, a 3 day holiday). I was less than totally sympathetic, because they didn't have to deal with that on Sukkot and Shmini Atzeret also. :-)