daf bit: Niddah 9

[cellio]

The daf-yomi cycle has arrived at tractate Niddah, which is about what I will refer to as "private woman stuff". I'll pull things from here where I can, but you should expect some tangents over the next couple months when that doesn't work out. Today's daf is Niddah 10; I'm drawing from yesterday's.

Some laws apply only to women of certain ages. The talmud therefore needs to define these various age groups. Who is an "old woman"? The mishna says "any woman over whom three onahs have passed near the time of her old age". (An onah is approximately a month.) Well, that sounds kind of circular, doesn't it? The g'mara expounds: Rav Yehudah says "the time of her old age" is when her friends speak of her as an old woman, and R. Shimon says it is when people call her mother in her presence and she does not blush. R. Zera or R. Shmuel ben Yitzchak says it is when she is called mother and does not mind. What is the practical difference? One might blush but not mind. (9a-b)

Where other age-based rules are sometimes more fixed, it's interesting to see one that is so dependent on social context. You're old when your friends say you're old or when you don't mind being called mother. (Old women who are not mothers are not addressed by this blushing/minding standard.)

Comments

[cellio]

Thanks for the leads! Much appreciated.