Our congregation has a fairly new "20s / 30s" group,
in an effort to make people in that age bracket
become more involved and feel more welcome. (Many
congregations have problems attracting and keeping people in that bracket.)
This is explicitly not a "singles group", so I went
to the Shabbat dinner they held Friday night before
services.
It was fun. I previously knew only two of the
~25 people who were there, which just emphasized
the point to me that we have a mostly-disconnected
group of members. There were both couples and
individuals.
They asked us to light candles and make kiddush and
motzi at our tables, rather than one person leading
for the entire group. I'm not sure that worked;
we ended up bumping into the singing from each
others' tables sometimes. The rest of my table
elected me "most likely to know the words and carry
a tune" or some such when I wasn't looking, so I
ended up doing candles and kiddush before insisting
that someone else participate and do motzi. (Someone
obliged.) Later the organizer told me that next time
maybe she'll ask me to lead for everyone; she likes
my voice. Ok, if she wants to give me kiddush
that's fine, but she should pick two other people
for the two other blessings. (Besides, I cease to
be elligible for this group in a year, so she shouldn't
get used to me. :-) )
The dinner was very pleasant, though we didn't sing
songs the way I thought we would. I don't know how
one organizes that. (I've never been able to make
it happen when I invite people over for Shabbat, either.
I feel self-conscious saying "ok, let's sing now".)
Services were good. The rabbi had, uncharacteristically,
announced the topic of his sermon in advance, because
people had been asking him when he was going to talk
about Iraq and he wanted to let people know that this
week would be it. He said lots of good things with
which I agree; I'm not going to try to summarize.
It was very well-written; maybe he'll publish it.