Yesterday we went to the bar mitzvah of the son of friends.
Dani went with me, which was very nice of him (he doesn't
really do religion). I noticed that he was comparing the
English and Hebrew in the siddur;
Gates of Prayer
is pretty bad about that, and this seemed to provide him
with some amusement.
During the Torah reading, when we got to the part about
Chava telling the snake that not only was she not permitted
to eat the fruit but she wasn't even permitted to
touch it, I leaned over to him and said "this may
be the oldest g'zeirah" (fence around the Torah), and
he had to stifle a laugh. Oops. :-) (A fence around
the Torah is when the rabbis rule that you can't take
some otherwise-permitted action because it might lead
you to a forbidden one. For example, on Shabbat you
are not to handle matches; the actual forbidden act is
kindling fire. That sort of thing. In this case, God
told them not to eat but didn't say anything -- at
least that got recorded -- about touching.)
Dani asked me where the tradition that the fruit is
an apple comes from. I don't know; I do know that
there are Jewish sources that argue for other fruits.
(I've heard pomogranate and I think date.) Dani
argues for chestnuts on the theory that Mark Twain
can't be wrong.
The luncheon was very nice, and several people
made a point of thanking Dani for coming (including
my rabbi). I was able to steer us toward people
he would enjoy talking with, and we lucked into
a couple more at the table we sat down at, so
I think it went well.
Last night we went to a gaming session. While this
wasn't planned, the theme turned out to be robots.
When we arrived there was a game of Ricochet Robot
in progress, so we joined in. (It's adaptable that
way.) I'm not fast enough with that kind of visual
reasoning, it appears. Then we played a long
game of Robo Rally. I started off doing poorly
with navigation -- combination of bad cards and
not wrapping my brain around some of the hazards
on the board (conveyer belts, gears, pools of slime,
that sort of thing). But I recovered and at one
point was in the lead, though another player who
had been close behind me managed to slip past and
win. The last flag was in a really hard
spot to reach, and he had a gadget that allowed
him to tag it from nearby rather than having to
land on it. It was a fun game, though not one
I'd play often.
We had exactly seven people, so before we settled
on Robo Rally someone proposed Diplomacy. I felt
bad about vetoing it under near-optimal conditions
(you want exactly seven people), but I really
hate that style of game. Sorry, guys. I hope they'll
find a seventh and play some other time, because
Dani enjoys it and hasn't played in a long time.
(My objection to Diplomacy is all about the politics
and not at all about the world conquest, by the way.)