a seasonal request

We are now in the midst of the days of awe, when Jews look at the wrongs of the past year and try to correct errors so we can move forward.

If I have wronged you by word or deed and not made it right, please bring the matter to my attention so I can address it. My email address is in my profile.

mostly Shabbat (or "welcome to my rabbi's world, again")

Rosh Hashana went well for me, but I don't find myself having a lot to say about it. There are some bits of the liturgy that particularly struck me, and maybe later I'll get my machzor (high-holy-day prayerbook) and post them.

Shabbat morning I got a phone call from that day's torah reader, saying that she couldn't get there due to flooded-out areas between her house and the synagogue. I feel bad for her because she spent time learning the portion and now she can't use it until this time next year. She felt bad for leaving us in the lurch, and I tried to reassure her that it was obviously not her fault.

The rabbi couldn't stay today, so I suspected this would mean we wouldn't have a torah service, but then I said "hey, I read this portion last year; I wonder...". With ten minutes available to me to answer that question, I pulled out the tikkun and scraped the rust off of enough to make a valid torah reading. I wasn't going to be able to do all of it with that amount of time, but so long as you do at least three verses you can read torah. And I was able to do that, because (IMO) Ha'azinu is one of the easiest torah portions out there, and I'd done it before. When I got to shul I asked someone else to lead that part of the service and a third person to read the haftarah portion, because I didn't want to just take over myself. Remember those words; they'll be relevant later.

I mentally composed a d'var torah while walking to shul -- so it wasn't as polished as it might have been under better circumstances, but it was passable. I talked about the season and not the parsha directly. As my rabbi pointed out last week, this season is characterized by t'shuvah (repentance, or return), s'lichah (forgiveness), and kapparah (atonement). We've talked about the first and the last but not as much about the middle one. When we talk about forgiveness, we often focus on seeking it -- but we also have to be ready to grant it, when someone asks or even when the person doesn't ask. Sometimes the person who wronged you has no idea that he has done so, in which case he's not going to come to you. And sometimes the person knows he wronged you but he's not going to approach you and it's just not worth staying angry about it. So, I said, try to grant the possibility that the person might not know, and even if he doesn't, try not to carry minor grudges into the new year. It's just not worth it. Remember those words; they'll be relevant later.

One of the members of the group is a professor at a nearby college and is teaching a religion class this term. So, with advance notice to the rabbi, she brought about a dozen students to the service. The rabbi welcomed them and was extra-careful about giving page numbers, but otherwise did nothing special. Everything was going fine, and I assume the professor gave the students an overview of the service before she brought them.

( problem: the return of ranty-guy )

But other than that the day went really well, and I received many compliments on my last-minute torah reading. After the ranty guy left I spoke with a freshman from Pitt who was there for the first time, and she said she really enjoyed the service and will be back. We also told her about Yom Kippur services, and it sounds like she's planning to come. She seems like a nice person; I'm glad the ranty guy didn't scare her off.

After services we went to Coronation (SCA event), giving a ride to a student who's in the choir. It took a long time to get there due to heavy traffic caused by closed roads, but it was a good event and it was fun to spend the time in the car chatting with a newer member. We also sat with two newer members at dinner (I hadn't met them before, though one of them had heard of me), and they are both nice people I hope to see more of. A lot of people in the SCA worry about getting new members, which often comes through big demos and the like. But retention has a lot to do with that kind of one-on-one contact, and it's what I enjoy more. I'm not all that interested in pitching the SCA to a boy-scout troop, but I'm very interested in chatting with folks who've already decided to get involved about what they want to do and helping get them pointed in the right direction.

The dinner at the event was really good. I like it when Johan cooks. :-) In addition to being talented, he takes care to make sure that everyone will be able to get enough to eat -- at many events vegetarians basically get bread, noodles, rice, and maybe a salad, but I ate quite well yesterday -- spinach quiche, salmon (ok, "regular" vegetarians wouldn't eat that), noodles with cheese, asparagus, salad, nuts, another cooked vegetable, and more. I didn't even save room for dessert, as it turned out.

sukkah

Dani is a sweetie.

Today I went to Home Depot to get a couple more sheets of lattice for the new sukkah. Before I bought anything (and before I had them cut something else I decided to pick up at the same time), I confirmed that they'd be able to wrap plastic around the bundle so we could tie this onto the roof of my car without scratching paint. This was all fine in principle.

It's a funny thing: when there are things you see all the time, you sometimes just completely fail to notice them. I had kind of wondered when I bought this car about the strange place they put the antenna, but then it faded completely into the background.

VW puts the antenna in the center of the back of the car (on the roof). And it doesn't retract. Mine's a small car, so if we had put stuff in front of the antenna it would have blocked view out the front. (Blocking view out the back is not such a big deal, given side mirrors and that it's a trip of a few miles through city streets.) So then we looked at sliding the lattice down over the antenna, bringing it up through the holes in the lattice, but there were several reasons that this was a bad idea.

I called a friend who lives a few blocks away and has a van, but he wasn't home. So then I called Dani, who very nicely brought his car, which lacks a roof-top obstacle, to Home Depot so we could load lumber onto it. Yay!

Aside: you don't need any special cables or webbing or whatnot to attach stuff to the roof when shopping at Home Depot: the plastic they use for shrink-wrapping works just fine, though my inner sense of perversity wanted to tie a big bow on the top of the car when we were done gift-wrapping it. :-)