a celebration

This summer marks 20 years for my rabbi with our congregation, so there was a celebration this past weekend. It was fun, and I could tell that he was touched. Yay!

The organizers arranged for Debbie Friedman to come in. She was his songleader when he was a teenager, and he's fond of both her and her music. She joined our cantorial soloist, choir, and band on Friday night, and gave a concert Saturday night. The concert (with associated sponsorships) was a fundraiser for the congregation, and from the turnout and size of the ad book it looks like it was effective. (Of course, I don't know about the costs.)

I don't know how this has been for other converts, but my education did not cover Jewish fundraising (beyond the JNF), and it's different from what I was used to before. When the letter about the ad book came, I thought "I have nothing to advertise" because I don't own a business (unlike a lot of my fellow congregants), so I didn't send anything in. There was an option for "greetings", but that didn't register. When I saw the book Saturday night I understood -- it's more like a memento (think college yearbook, perhaps). A lot of families bought display ads that said "mazel tov" or "thank you" and then just had their names, and some people wrote little testimonials. Oh drat; I would have written something if I'd had the clue that this was appropriate. My rabbi is fantastic, and is largely responsible for my being (1) a member of this congregation and (2) a Reform Jew, and if I'd known I would have praised him in print. Now that I know how this works, I feel kind of bad that I didn't do something as an individual. (The morning minyan bought an ad as a group, so I was part of that. And they listed my name on the committee even though I didn't really do anything.)

The other fundraising aspect, at least, I grokked. You could buy a concert ticket, or you could make a (specified) bigger donation and also attend the dessert reception, or you could make an even bigger donation and also attend the pre-concert "meet and greet", or you could make a big donation and also attend a private function (held a few weeks ago) with the rabbi's family. I usually avoid hoity-toity dinners and the like; I neither enjoy playing dress-up nor want that big a chunk of my donation to go toward paying for the food. (It also feels a little immodest to me -- I'm not criticizing anyone else, just talking about how it would make me feel to participate.) But the concert add-ons felt different to me; they were just little receptions, not a multi-course formal dinner and all the trappings. I actually paid more for the evening than the price of the gala dinner I wouldn't go to a few years ago, but it felt more appropriate to me. Now, it turned out to be fancy desserts and elegant appetizers and wine beforehand, but ok. It didn't trip my "ostentatious" sensor.

But all that aside -- my rabbi seemed to really enjoy the weekend, and he was clearly touched by things people said, and his parents and other family members were able to be there with him, and those are the important things.

Mac keypad followup

A couple weeks ago I asked for advice (in an entry that was then locked but is now public) on Mac-compatable numeric keypads. The gift has now been given and tested, so here are the results.

This turns out to be hard. Numeric (wireless or USB-tethered) keypads that work with Windows are easy to find, but not so the Mac. The Apple store couldn't even help me. But someone pointed out the Genovation Micropad, which Amazon claims works with Windows and Mac, so I got that. (I knew I could return it to Amazon within 30 days, and was betting that an opened package wouldn't be a problem up against their claim of Mac compatability, if that turned out not to be true. I saved the product page just in case.)

The results: the numbers (and enter and decimal, I presume) work just fine. The special functions, including num lock, do not. The recpient called the manufacturer's support line and was told that the keycodes are Windows-specific and, to their knowledge, no one makes a Mac-compatable one. He has Apple support, so he called them and got the same answer. Apparently there just isn't enough demand for this among Mac users. He wants it because he has a laptop without the numberpad built in, and data entry via the conventional number keys is slow.

He decided to keep it because he mainly wanted the number keys anyway. I'm going to add a customer review to the Amazon page noting the platform semi-mis-information.