One of my ongoing frustrations with many Reform services (and prayer books)
is what I think of as dumbing down the service to be accessible to all,
in the process alienating some of the dedicated people who were already
there. (There's a vicious cycle in there that leads to
needing
to do so because everyone else has fled.) I wondered a little whether I
was being hyper-sensitive or something, because when I've brought it up
in conversation I've mostly gotten surprised looks.
I recently came across
rethinking egalitarianism
and found myself emphatically saying "yes yes yes!" while reading. Excerpt:
Let's rethink what we mean by "egalitarianism." What if it meant "open
to all who bother to make the effort"? What if synagogues distributed
fliers that said: "Welcome! We are very glad you are here. Our service
is somewhat traditional, because that traditional form works for us. You
may be a little lost at first. So we warmly invite you to join our
weekly Siddur 101 class, where you can learn the ropes." People who
choose to accept the invitation obtain the rewards. Those who don't,
don't. Not only would such an approach allow longtime participants to
get more out of the prayer experience, but it would also suggest to
newcomers that there's something worth working toward. Things that come
cheap usually feel that way.
As I understand it, this is part of Rabbi Elie Kaunfer's argument in his
recent book, "Empowered Judaism" (Jewish Lights Publishing). What the
Jewish world needs, Kaunfer writes, is not more dumbing-down but more
empowerment of individuals to opt in if they so desire. Before Kaunfer,
this argument was Maimonides's: The best Judaism is really only for
philosophers, but the opportunity to become a philosopher ought to be
open to everybody.
American Jews have long prized education and knowledge. So why do we
suddenly throw those values out the window when it comes to synagogue
life? Is it really more inclusive to be patronized by a service aimed at
the lowest common denominator?
Thoughts?