I wrote previously about the Mi Yodeya celebration. I also joined Isaac
and others for services while there, which was interesting and educational.
( places visited )
A couple observations:
First, none of the services felt rushed, but I do not know how
people pray that quickly. I couldn't keep up without vocalizing
everything, while the service leader was spitting out the Hebrew cleanly
and clearly. I guess it comes in time? But on the other hand, if I
haven't gotten it by now...
They sure do a lot of kaddishes. If I recall correctly, at the
end of the Sunday-morning service there was a bit of torah learning followed
by kaddish d'rabbanan, and I came away with the impression that the
former was there mainly to justify the latter. (Kaddish is said
at certain points in the service, mainly to act as a division, but it also
may be said after any learning.) Unlike in Reform services, kaddish
is said either by one person or the mourners as a group. I found myself
wondering how that's coordinated -- who gets which ones, how do they know,
and if you particularly want one that day, how do you signal that?
Both of these synagogues -- and, now that I think about it, several
other Orthodox synagogues I've been to -- had a bunch of different
siddurim (prayer books). The content is basically the same in
all of them, but sometimes there are minor variations, they may or may
not include English translations (which may or may not vary subtly),
they may or may not contain commentary, and so on. This has a few
consequences:
- You actually get, and have to make, a choice. Friday night I
just took a book; it was all Hebrew, no English translation. That's
fine for the prayers (I'm going to do those in Hebrew anyway), but
I had to work a little more at navigation.
- Some people bring their own, an option that simply had not occurred
to me.
- Because not everybody is using the same book, and also I assume
because there's an assumption that if you're there you're fluent
(which breaks down in some individual cases, of course), they don't call
out instructions or page numbers -- you're just expected to be able to
follow. I can do that for a Shabbat or weekday service, but might be
challenged to do so on, say, the high holy days.
On Saturday morning I used the Koren
siddur, which I've heard
good things about. I actually found the Hebrew font just a tad hard
to read, compared to
Sim Shalom, Artscroll, and even
Mishkan
T'filah. It looked like a nice siddur otherwise, so maybe one
to have available even if I don't use it regularly. Or maybe, were I
to use it regularly, I'd find the font a little easier.
I'm glad I got the opportunity to experience all that.