Thanks. Given the way it turned out, I'm glad to be rid of the site. The divorce was actually more than a year ago (not long after I posted this), but we've only just settled the custody case, so to speak. (The account deletion was last week.) I'm free! They can't harm me any more; at worst they can say nasty things about me behind my back, but people everywhere can do that, so there's no point in worrying about that. I won't be there to hear it.