Today we went to my parents' house to do the
holiday get-together. (The rest of the family
is my sister and her two kids.) Things went
reasonably well, though both of my parents were
more distracted than usual (my father by a football
game, and my mother by a string of small things).
So we didn't spend all that much time talking,
which was unfortunate. I can sort of roll with
stuff like that because I've known these people
a long time, but I could tell that Dani was
feeling somewhat on the outside and I didn't
know how to fix that.
My parents gave us a George Foreman grill. Woo hoo!
I wondered if they were fishing for possible reactions
at Thanksgiving when they showed us theirs, but it
turns out they bought this for us back in August,
before we ever saw theirs. I'm looking forward to
using it. It looks like a good size for two people.
They also gave me the first season of Babylon 5
on DVD (I suspected they would, so I held off buying
it). They gave Dani an anime movie (on DVD) that I
have failed to retain the name of. We got my mother
a season of X-Files, my father Band of
Brothers (but it's been delayed, so we had to give
him a promissory), and my sister the Back to the
Future trilogy and the first season of Buffy.
It was the year of DVDs in our family. :-) (We all
acquired players within the last year, so this was
forseeable.)
(There were other gifts, but it's not my intention to
catalog everything here. I am pleased that almost
all of the gifts we brought were well-received.)
Dinner featured a lamb roast (I really like lamb), which
my mother hasn't been making much lately. My sister
doesn't like lamb, so they threw some chicken into the
GF grill for her. It's about as fast as nuking, I guess,
but a lot more tasty. My spice cake went over well.
My sister seems to have had a Martha Stewart moment;
she fabricated a train out of candy, crackers (small
ones for wheels), and assorted other stuff. It was
novel. Apparently she got the idea out of that Pilsbury
cooking magazine that we both subscribe to; I haven't
yet read the recent "holiday desserts" issue.
My father is currently wrestling with DSL from Verizon
(sound familiar?), apparently the only carrier serving
their town. (I just sent email to Telerama to
check on that, as he hadn't heard of them.)
He had some problems getting it set up, and
spent a while on the phone with a guy with a
script, and eventually he got a connection.
Then he rebooted the machine, and ever since
he has been getting an error (number only, no
text -- I thought Macs were supposed to be better
than that), and no network connection. And
whatever is happening is also hosing his modem,
so he can't dial out. I hope he's able to get
some help from Verizon tomorrow. Dani and I tried
to debug it but didn't get very far. Oh, and one
oddity: they have to put some sort of special "filter"
hardware on every phone in their house because DSL
messes up the phone line. I knew that Verizon
required something like that back in 1999, but
I was told that they'd eventually fixed that. I
wonder if, when they enter new service areas, they
start by recycling all the hardware they've stopped
using elsewhere. :-) (My parents' town only got
DSL recently.)
My niece has become rather sullen and rude,
particularly in the last year or so, and I
don't know why. I hope that going away to college
next year fixes it, rather than making it worse.