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Mar. 17th, 2024 02:03 pm
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Well, it was a week. Very mixed, and very mixed emotions about most of it. Monday I had my markers installed. Wednesday I had my "treatment simulation" appointment, which is for getting everything lined up and calibrated for the actual radiation treatment. (That starts a week from tomorrow.) Wednesday was also my 77th birthday. Thursday was Pi Day -- we had pizza. Saturday was Colleen's birthday, which was something of a trainwreck, but at least I remained reasonably functional. The rest of the days I don't remember much happening.

I took walks Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday (go me!). Also Saturday, if (as $G's fitness app did) you count time spent wandering around a grocery store, and exercised -- at least a little -- Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday I had things scheduled early, which threw off my schedule. That's my excuse, anyway. I'm going to have to lengthen my walks. And get back to singing, damnit.

In somewhat encouraging news, last year marked "the first time since World War II, when hydropower was booming, that a renewable power source has comprised more than half of the nation’s energy additions." Only the incrememtal change, but still. It's in the right direction.

Notes & links, as usual )

Overheard on the ward

Mar. 17th, 2024 08:41 pm
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Nurse 1: Why a scone?
Nurse 2: They gave me a scone once, when I had a flu injection. Perhaps it's the bribe of choice...

We currently have some cats

Mar. 17th, 2024 03:19 pm
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We have Callie, Mama Cat, Reeses, fucking Sebastian, and Spirit.

Three of these cats are allowed to go in and out. One of those cats is semi-feral and sneaks into our house using the basement window. And the last isn't allowed outside. She also wears a collar with a bell.

So here I was in the yard yesterday, digging up ragweed by the roots. This is an unending task, but I will see some progress! And in the middle I got distracted and decided to start dividing the daffodils. I know, it's the wrong time of year for that, but if I wait until fall I'll forget again. Honestly, this is why I don't like daffodils so much. I feel like I spend my whole life planning to divide them, then realizing belatedly that I forgot. So I'm dividing the daffodils and then shoving some bulbs where I've turned the soil very thoroughly getting the ragweed up. And while I do this I'm also tossing rocks over my shoulder if I find them.

Until suddenly I toss a rock and hear an alarmed "jingle" behind me. Turning around... "Spirit!?"

So I went to get her, but for some reason she ran away and I lost her! Luckily a neighbor saw her climbing in that same basement window. Crisis averted! But now she won't let me come close. I mean, I guess I did throw a rock at her and then chase her around the house, but seriously! Bygones!

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Tub is out of the yard

Mar. 21st, 2024 11:30 am
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A neighbor kindly moved it for us. I ought to make them fudge or something, I was shameless about accepting that help. (Well. If people offer to help you then it's only right to say yes, isn't it?)

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One of the Good Ones (Pasadena Playhouse)As the World Premiere of the new play One of the Good Ones (which we saw Saturday night at the Pasadena Playhouse) started, I was cringing. The dialogue and interactions of a white woman overplaying an encounter with a Hispanic worker was just.. uhhhhh. With that opening, I’m sure you’re expecting me to say that this play was completely cringe-worthy, a trainwreck.

But, no, that was my opinion of their last showKate.

One of the Good Ones is harder to characterize. At time, there was dialogue that was completely cringeworthy. At other times, the show was hilariously funny. The thought that kept coming to my mind was that this really was an extended situation comedy. Many of today’s sitcoms are like that. I’ll be watching The Neighborhood or even Abbott Elementary and there will be dialogue and situations that are completely cringeworthy—the “this is stupid and I want to turn this off” level. But then the show redeems itself.

This is that sort of a comedy, which with its length (80 minutes, no intermission) is very much an extended sitcom. This isn’t a theatrical classic. It is just a funny evening in front of the TV. In fact, thinking about this even more, I could see this being a real sitcom. The family presented here is set up and established and could result in many very funny story lines. TV executives down the freeway in Burbank (home to NBC, ABC, and a little down the road, CBS Radford): Are you listening?

So here’s the setup. Father, Enrique (Carlos Gomez) is a slightly hot-headed Cuban American, 2nd generation. Mother, Ilana (Lana Parrilla) is a Mexican-Puerto Rican American, also 2nd generation,  who does not speak Spanish. Daughter, Yoli (Isabella Gomez) is bringing home her boyfriend … make that serious boyfriend … make that very serious boyfriend, Marcos (Nico Greetham). So you’ve got intergenerational conflict, and parents who don’t accept their daughter growing up. And Marcos is claimed to be Mexican… after all he was born in Mexico City.

But then the secrets and truths start to come out, and the meat of the comedy comes out as well. I don’t want to spoil the jokes, but some of them are a bit predictable. Some I didn’t see coming at all. And yes, there were cringeworthy moments, such as the aforementioned opening where the mother, who doesn’t speak Spanish, completely over reacts to a Hispanic delivery person.

As I said: A sitcom. Actually, it would be a great sitcom, once the ensemble settled into the family that sitcom ensembles do.

Should you see this? I’d ask: Do you like sitcoms? If you do: If you (like me) find shows like The Neighborhood funny, go for it. I think you would enjoy this.

I should note that this play—just like some sitcoms—actually makes some deeper points in all of its comedy. In this case, the point is made about the problem with the whole American “Melting Pot” model. For all of the broad ethnic groups, our significant cultural and ethnic past as we melt into the larger group: Italians and Irish and English and … become “White”; “Mexicans” and “Spanish” and “Cubans” and … become “Latinx” (and there are some good jokes about that). Many different African and Caribbean and …. heritages become “Black”; Japanese and Chinese and Korean and …. become “Asian”. We lose the value of those identities. They then get further subsumed when we become the lump label “American”. Further, is what makes you your label dependent on your heritage or where you were born? Is a son of English and German immigrants, born in Mexico and speaking fluent Spanish, Mexican? These are deep and relevant questions today, and they are buried in the humor of this play.

But this isn’t new for a sitcom. Archie Bunker was making us think as he was making us laugh, and as he was saying things that were very cringeworthy. It’s an honored sitcom tradition. It isn’t the days of Leave It to Beaver  or Ozzie and Harriet anymore.

One of the Good Ones continues at the Pasadena Playhouse until April 7. Tickets are available through the Pasadena Playhouse website; they may also be available through the usual discount outlets.

One note for completeness: Last weekend we saw the folk music group Emma’s Revolution at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Long Beach. Great show, but I don’t always write up concerts. Here is their future show schedule.

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Cast: Lana Parrilla Ilana; Carlos Gomez Enrique; Isabella Gomez Yoli; Nico Greetham Marcos; Santino Jimenez Pedro. Understudies: Abel Garcia, Anna LaMadrid.

Production and Creative Credits: Written by Gloria Calderón Kellett. Directed by Kimberly Senior. Other credits: Tanya Orellana Scenic Design; Denitsa Bliznakova Costume Design; Jaymi Lee Smith Lighting Design; Jeff Gardner & Andrea Allmond Sound Design; Rachel Lee Flesher Fight & Intimacy Coordinator; Ryan Bernard Tymensky CSA Casting; David S. Franklin Stage Manager; Brad Enlow Technical Direction / Production Supervisor; Davidson & Choy Publicity Press Representative; Jenny Slattery Associate Producer; Miriam E. Mendoza Asst. Stage Manager.

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Administrivia: I am not a professional critic. I’m a cybersecurity professional, a roadgeek who does a highway site and a podcast about California Highways, and someone who loves live performance. I buy all my own tickets, unless explicitly noted otherwise. I do these writeups to share my thoughts on shows with my friends and the community. I encourage you to go to your local theatres and support them (ideally, by purchasing full price tickets, if you can afford to do so). We currently subscribe or have memberships at: Center Theatre Group/Ahmanson TheatreBroadway in Hollywood/Pantages TheatrePasadena PlayhouseGeffen Playhouse (Mini-Subscription); 5-Star Theatricals. We’re looking for the right intimate theatre to subscribe at — it hasn’t been the same since Rep East died (it’s now The Main, and although it does a lot of theatre, it doesn’t have seasons or a resident company), and post-COVID, most 99-seaters aren’t back to doing seasons (or seasons we like). I used to do more detailed writeups; here’s my current approach.

Upcoming ♦ Theatre / ♣ Music / ◊ Other Live Performance – Next 90ish Days (⊕ indicates ticketing is pending):

On the Theatrical Horizon:

Morgan-Wixson Theatre in Santa Monica has announced their Mainstage 2024 Season, and it includes Bat Boy the Musical running Sept 28 through October 18. We saw Bat Boy back when CSUN did it in 2014; it is a wonderful musical about how a society treats outsiders. I also just learned about a theatre company in Fullerton, Maverick Theater. They are doing Evil Dead: The Musical , which is a hoot if you’ve never seen it (we’ve seen it twice). They also have some interesting other stuff on their season, and we might drive down for Santa Claus Vs The Martians in November.

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Today is Colleen's 72nd birthday. I'm having cheese and crackers for lunch, and expect to be having gin-and-tonic before dinner, then Szechuan Chinese, with green tea. It's about as close as I can come to our old household traditions.

My birthday was Wednesday; if we'd been back at the Starport in San Jose we would have had our usual open house, with pizza and assorted cheeses. Here I had the pizza on Thursday (Pi day), and the cheese today.

Today would have been the "It's Green" potluck party; we would have had Green Rooster beer, corned beef and cabbage, and a chocolate cake with creme-de-menth iceing. The invitations included the line "As usual, it's from Noon 'til Midnight (or later!) -- drop in any time; no need to RSVP; kids, friends, and musical instruments welcome." There were/are quite a few people in the household with birthdays in March.

It was Colleen, mostly, who made the potluck parties and Wednesday open houses legendary. I mostly hung out in either the kitchen or my office, talking with a few people at a time, which was all I could handle. Introvert.

Sadly few, if any, of our household traditions survived the move to Seattle. And if they had, they wouldn't have survived two subsequent moves and COVID-19. I don't think either of us realized just how big a support group we had left behind.

No success like failure

Mar. 16th, 2024 05:50 pm
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Thanks to everyone who left such kind - and sensible and perceptive - messages in my previous post. [personal profile] durham_rambler has read them: he does not have his DW log-in on his new phone, but I have reminded him that it is possible to reply anonymously...

From which you may deduce that he continues to improve. He is still hooked up to the oxygen supply, but they are reducing the concentration; today he decided to get dressed. He is in touch with his e-mail, keeping an eye on the FB group of which he is one of the moderators, making notes of a work task he will not be able to do, and which I will need to tackle.

And it's good news, too, that he has a diagnosis: though it could be a better diagnosis. The left ventricle of his heart is under-performing, which is technically heart failure. He has been given a red pamphlet called something along the lines of 'What to do when you have been told you have heart failure'. Strangely, there wasn't room on the cover for the words DON'T PANIC, but that seems to be the tone of the text (he hasn't yet managed to get hold of another copy for me), and I am doing my best to obey that instruction.

He is in the right place: they are trying out different medication, and he is receiving lots of attention. Today he was thinking that they might send him home towards the end of next week, but I'll take one day at a time.

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Mar. 16th, 2024 09:48 am
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I wish I could sleep comfortably on my back, specifically because it would give the gherkin an extra eight hours to cuddle me, but we both must settle for her curling up against my spine (I'm a side sleeper).

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A big dog, especially compared to our little guys. And she's very sweet, very chill - but she's also ten months old, so pretty energetic, pretty chaotic, and no manners at all, especially on the leash.

Friend had to visit his parents, who are allergic to dogs, so we've got her, and I've never appreciated our small dogs more than on this walk.

instagram cross-post

Mar. 16th, 2024 03:39 am
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Gideon's first time on top of Blackford Hill.
Original is here on instagram.

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Well, that did not go as planned. We spent a pleasant, if low-key, birthday, as posted last time, and went to bed anticipating plenty of fun for the following day. But in the night, [personal profile] durham_rambler began to feel unwell. In retrospect, he has had a lingering overnight cough for several weeks, and has begun complaining of shortness of breath, in terms of being less young and less fit than he was: but by the small hours of Wednesday morning, he was coughing constantly, gasping for air, sweating - bad enough, in short, that we called an emergency ambulance, and by five a.m. we were in A&E.

As soon as they had him hooked up to an oxygen supply, he started to feel better. He has been extensively scanned and measured, and enjoyed, everytime he was asked his date of birth, being able to give it, with the comment that "Yesterday was my birthday!" which earned him plenty of extra birthday wishes - in which context, I should thank everyone who left greetings for him in my previous post: I have pointed him in that direction! He was transferred within the day to the ward adjacent to A&E, and is still there, still on oxygen, though he now has a portable cylinder, which means he is able to visit the bathroom, which has cheered him up considerably. He was also allowed to shower, though unplugging him from the oxygen left him a little breathless.

D. has persisted with his planned visit, and been immensely helpful about driving me to and from the hospital. I sent him out to shop for his own breakfast requirements, since shopping was part of the post-birthday outing plan which we had to abandon. Another abandoned plan was for the three of us to join D.'s sister and brother-in-law for lunch at the High Force Hotel and possibly a walk after. I have sent D. off to do this on his own, and I will visit [personal profile] durham_rambler this afternoon, when visiting is permitted: one of his colleagues from the City of Durham Trust has just phoned to offer me a lift, and I have accepted, with much gratitude (there are buses, but this is so much easier).

I asked [personal profile] durham_rambler if there was anything I could bring him this afternoon, and he asked for his shoes. I refused: they are heavy, and he doesn't have much storage space. He clearly anticipates being sent home at any minute, and I take this as a good sign: not because I think it likely, but because it means he is feeling much better. I'm sure when he is discharged, it will be without warning (and he will need door-to-door transport, so he'll be fine wearing his slippers); and I know that they can send him home with a portable oxygen cylinder. But I suspect they'll want more of a diagnosis than You seem to have a chest infection, let's see if it responds to antibiotics...

We live from hour to hour, visiting time to visiting time. He has his phone, and a whole tangle of chargers, only two of which he actually needs. He can call me with updates, and he does. He has ordered fish and chips for lunch, and solved three clues of yesterday's crossword. So it goes.

Interesting Links for 15-03-2024

Mar. 15th, 2024 12:00 pm

Not enough of an update

Mar. 15th, 2024 12:48 am
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Back from Los Angeles.
++ doctor can help
-- SIX surgeries and that is all before we can do the hip. And completely ignores the knees, which will also have to get done at sone point sooner rather than later.
-- OMG this is going to be nuts expensive
--- I have to pay out of pocket in advance
+++ Thanks to the fact that I am on the expensive health plan at Major NonProfit I only have a $1500 max out of pocket for out of network care so ONG expensive should actually be, essentially, free.
--- I will have to pay and submit for reimbursement. If they agree it's medically necessary. Otherwise I am screwed.
---- This many surgeries and costs may cause Major NonProfit to reconsider their self-insured status.
??? Though in the grand scheme of surgical costs maybe it's not so much?
??? But I don't think they expected to spend so much on one patient

Good lord I could keep this up for hours.

Thankful Thursday

Mar. 14th, 2024 08:11 pm
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Today I am grateful for...

  • The healing power of stories and storytelling. Stories in general, really.
  • MASKS. Also C-R boxes.
  • Pi Day. Which is also the International Day of Mathematics! Cool! Also the local pizza joint that has a "buy one 11-inch pie, get another for $3.14" special today.
  • Yesterday, birthday cake. Also drunken chicken with wine on the side.
  • Bling.

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From TED To PERNOCTATED, Scrabble’s Best Player Knows No Limits

I haven't played Scrabble since I was a young teen. Between Mommy and Jenn there was no chance of winning! And no, that is not like my sister refusing to play Mario Kart against me, because a full Grand Prix on Mario Kart only takes about a quarter hour, but Scrabble goes on forever. So it's totally different, and Jenn, you should play Mario Kart against me someday soon. I'll let you lap me first!

Wait, I had a point, and that point wasn't about playing Mario Kart. Oh, right. This article is fascinating and I wonder if anybody's tried to get him to play Scrabble while hooked up to an MRI.
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but I still don't care about the British Royal Family and their shenanigans, and only harbor a vague resentment that I know enough about them to have any sort of opinion at all.

With that said, I don't know what's up with that photo or what, but making/asking/allowing Kate to apologize for meddling with it was shitty. Even if she was the one who did that poor editing job (for fun? to hide scars? as a plea for help?) they could throw the blame on some unnamed nobody, surely! Somebody safely imaginary who isn't going through a trying time - and whatever's going on must be very trying. It certainly sounds that way.

But whatever, she's probably in rehab or something. I mean, wouldn't you be if you had to deal with all this nonsense all the time? (And couldn't those people afford better photo manipulation? I mean, really! They have enough money!)

Interesting Links for 14-03-2024

Mar. 14th, 2024 12:00 pm
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Winter share, 10 of 11

Mar. 13th, 2024 06:35 pm
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  • two pounds of potatoes
  • two pounds of purple-skinned potatoes
  • four pounds of carrots
  • two pounds of parsnips (spring dug)
  • a jar of giardiniera (from Kitchen Garden Farm; not hechshered, so swapped for two more pounds of mixed potatoes; I don't really need more pickles, but the cauliflower part was particularly enticing, because I never have enough cauliflower to can any for later)
  • a bag of mixed salad greens (perhaps a pound?)
  • two pounds of spinach

First thoughts: I have not been keeping up with the spinach; perhaps mashed potatoes with spinach will help fix that? Also, salad on 3/15 seems apropos (Caesar salad for the ides of March :-) ). Otherwise, continue to work my way through all the roots, which are forgiving for storage purposes.

Seen at my train station…

Mar. 13th, 2024 09:16 am
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I guess it was 60 years ago today, at the train station I use almost every day.

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