Done Since 2024-03-10
Well, it was a week. Very mixed, and very mixed emotions about most of it. Monday I had my markers installed. Wednesday I had my "treatment simulation" appointment, which is for getting everything lined up and calibrated for the actual radiation treatment. (That starts a week from tomorrow.) Wednesday was also my 77th birthday. Thursday was Pi Day -- we had pizza. Saturday was Colleen's birthday, which was something of a trainwreck, but at least I remained reasonably functional. The rest of the days I don't remember much happening.
I took walks Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and Friday (go me!). Also Saturday, if (as $G's fitness app did) you count time spent wandering around a grocery store, and exercised -- at least a little -- Tuesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Sunday, Monday, and Wednesday I had things scheduled early, which threw off my schedule. That's my excuse, anyway. I'm going to have to lengthen my walks. And get back to singing, damnit.
In somewhat encouraging news, last year marked "the first time since World War II, when hydropower was booming, that a renewable power source has comprised more than half of the nation’s energy additions." Only the incrememtal change, but still. It's in the right direction.
Overheard on the ward
Nurse 1: Why a scone?
Nurse 2: They gave me a scone once, when I had a flu injection. Perhaps it's the bribe of choice...
We currently have some cats
Three of these cats are allowed to go in and out. One of those cats is semi-feral and sneaks into our house using the basement window. And the last isn't allowed outside. She also wears a collar with a bell.
So here I was in the yard yesterday, digging up ragweed by the roots. This is an unending task, but I will see some progress! And in the middle I got distracted and decided to start dividing the daffodils. I know, it's the wrong time of year for that, but if I wait until fall I'll forget again. Honestly, this is why I don't like daffodils so much. I feel like I spend my whole life planning to divide them, then realizing belatedly that I forgot. So I'm dividing the daffodils and then shoving some bulbs where I've turned the soil very thoroughly getting the ragweed up. And while I do this I'm also tossing rocks over my shoulder if I find them.
Until suddenly I toss a rock and hear an alarmed "jingle" behind me. Turning around... "Spirit!?"
So I went to get her, but for some reason she ran away and I lost her! Luckily a neighbor saw her climbing in that same basement window. Crisis averted! But now she won't let me come close. I mean, I guess I did throw a rock at her and then chase her around the house, but seriously! Bygones!
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Interesting Links for 17-03-2024
- 1. 'If anything happens, it's not suicide': Boeing whistleblower's prediction before death
- (tags:death suicide airplanes safety )
- 2. Deep-sea hiatus record reveals orbital pacing by 2.4 Myr eccentricity grand cycles
- (tags:prehistory ocean space weird )
- 3. Lexus, Not Tesla, Makes The Best Driver Assistance System (and most of them are bad)
- (tags:driving automation )
Tub is out of the yard
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🎭 Family Dynamics | "One of the Good Ones" @ Pasadena Playhouse

As the World Premiere of the new play One of the Good Ones (which we saw Saturday night at the Pasadena Playhouse) started, I was cringing. The dialogue and interactions of a white woman overplaying an encounter with a Hispanic worker was just.. uhhhhh. With that opening, I’m sure you’re expecting me to say that this play was completely cringe-worthy, a trainwreck.
But, no, that was my opinion of their last show, Kate.
One of the Good Ones is harder to characterize. At time, there was dialogue that was completely cringeworthy. At other times, the show was hilariously funny. The thought that kept coming to my mind was that this really was an extended situation comedy. Many of today’s sitcoms are like that. I’ll be watching The Neighborhood or even Abbott Elementary and there will be dialogue and situations that are completely cringeworthy—the “this is stupid and I want to turn this off” level. But then the show redeems itself.
This is that sort of a comedy, which with its length (80 minutes, no intermission) is very much an extended sitcom. This isn’t a theatrical classic. It is just a funny evening in front of the TV. In fact, thinking about this even more, I could see this being a real sitcom. The family presented here is set up and established and could result in many very funny story lines. TV executives down the freeway in Burbank (home to NBC, ABC, and a little down the road, CBS Radford): Are you listening?
So here’s the setup. Father, Enrique (Carlos Gomez) is a slightly hot-headed Cuban American, 2nd generation. Mother, Ilana (Lana Parrilla) is a Mexican-Puerto Rican American, also 2nd generation, who does not speak Spanish. Daughter, Yoli (Isabella Gomez) is bringing home her boyfriend … make that serious boyfriend … make that very serious boyfriend, Marcos (Nico Greetham). So you’ve got intergenerational conflict, and parents who don’t accept their daughter growing up. And Marcos is claimed to be Mexican… after all he was born in Mexico City.
But then the secrets and truths start to come out, and the meat of the comedy comes out as well. I don’t want to spoil the jokes, but some of them are a bit predictable. Some I didn’t see coming at all. And yes, there were cringeworthy moments, such as the aforementioned opening where the mother, who doesn’t speak Spanish, completely over reacts to a Hispanic delivery person.
As I said: A sitcom. Actually, it would be a great sitcom, once the ensemble settled into the family that sitcom ensembles do.
Should you see this? I’d ask: Do you like sitcoms? If you do: If you (like me) find shows like The Neighborhood funny, go for it. I think you would enjoy this.
I should note that this play—just like some sitcoms—actually makes some deeper points in all of its comedy. In this case, the point is made about the problem with the whole American “Melting Pot” model. For all of the broad ethnic groups, our significant cultural and ethnic past as we melt into the larger group: Italians and Irish and English and … become “White”; “Mexicans” and “Spanish” and “Cubans” and … become “Latinx” (and there are some good jokes about that). Many different African and Caribbean and …. heritages become “Black”; Japanese and Chinese and Korean and …. become “Asian”. We lose the value of those identities. They then get further subsumed when we become the lump label “American”. Further, is what makes you your label dependent on your heritage or where you were born? Is a son of English and German immigrants, born in Mexico and speaking fluent Spanish, Mexican? These are deep and relevant questions today, and they are buried in the humor of this play.
But this isn’t new for a sitcom. Archie Bunker was making us think as he was making us laugh, and as he was saying things that were very cringeworthy. It’s an honored sitcom tradition. It isn’t the days of Leave It to Beaver or Ozzie and Harriet anymore.
One of the Good Ones continues at the Pasadena Playhouse until April 7. Tickets are available through the Pasadena Playhouse website; they may also be available through the usual discount outlets.
One note for completeness: Last weekend we saw the folk music group Emma’s Revolution at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Long Beach. Great show, but I don’t always write up concerts. Here is their future show schedule.
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Cast: Lana Parrilla Ilana; Carlos Gomez Enrique; Isabella Gomez Yoli; Nico Greetham Marcos; Santino Jimenez Pedro. Understudies: Abel Garcia, Anna LaMadrid.
Production and Creative Credits: Written by Gloria Calderón Kellett. Directed by Kimberly Senior. Other credits: Tanya Orellana Scenic Design; Denitsa Bliznakova Costume Design; Jaymi Lee Smith Lighting Design; Jeff Gardner & Andrea Allmond Sound Design; Rachel Lee Flesher Fight & Intimacy Coordinator; Ryan Bernard Tymensky CSA Casting; David S. Franklin Stage Manager; Brad Enlow Technical Direction / Production Supervisor; Davidson & Choy Publicity Press Representative; Jenny Slattery Associate Producer; Miriam E. Mendoza Asst. Stage Manager.
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Administrivia: I am not a professional critic. I’m a cybersecurity professional, a roadgeek who does a highway site and a podcast about California Highways, and someone who loves live performance. I buy all my own tickets, unless explicitly noted otherwise. I do these writeups to share my thoughts on shows with my friends and the community. I encourage you to go to your local theatres and support them (ideally, by purchasing full price tickets, if you can afford to do so). We currently subscribe or have memberships at: Center Theatre Group/Ahmanson Theatre; Broadway in Hollywood/Pantages Theatre; Pasadena Playhouse; Geffen Playhouse (Mini-Subscription); 5-Star Theatricals. We’re looking for the right intimate theatre to subscribe at — it hasn’t been the same since Rep East died (it’s now The Main, and although it does a lot of theatre, it doesn’t have seasons or a resident company), and post-COVID, most 99-seaters aren’t back to doing seasons (or seasons we like). I used to do more detailed writeups; here’s my current approach.
Upcoming ♦ Theatre / ♣ Music / ◊ Other Live Performance – Next 90ish Days (⊕ indicates ticketing is pending):
- March: ♦ One of the Good Ones at the Pasadena Playhouse; ♦ Million Dollar Quartet at 5-Star Theatricals; ♦ Chicago at Broadway in Hollywood/Pantages; ♣ Go Jazz Big Band at The Main; ♦ Fat Ham at Geffen Playhouse.
- April: ♦ Funny Girl at CTG/Ahamanson Theatre; ◊ Renaissance Pleasure Faire; Xanadu at Canyon Theatre Guild; ♦ Spongebob Squarepants – The Musical at CSUN Theatre; ♣ Gordon Goodwin and the Big Phat Band at BofA/Kavli Theatre in Thousand Oaks. Possible: ♦ Head over Heels – The Musical at Santa Clarita Performing Arts Center – COC.
- May: ♦ Hands on a Hardbody at Charles Stewart Howard Playhouse; ♦ Girl from the North Country at Broadway in Hollywood/Pantages; ♦ The Play That Goes Wrong at Canyon Theatre Guild (⊕)
- June: ♦ Jelly’s Last Jam at the Pasadena Playhouse; ♦ A Strange Loop at CTG/Ahamanson Theatre; ♦ Mrs. Doubtfire at Broadway in Hollywood/Pantages; ♦ You Can’t Take It With You (⊕) at Group Rep; and potentially some ♦ Hollywood Fringe Festival shows, although June is pretty well booked already.
On the Theatrical Horizon:
Morgan-Wixson Theatre in Santa Monica has announced their Mainstage 2024 Season, and it includes Bat Boy the Musical running Sept 28 through October 18. We saw Bat Boy back when CSUN did it in 2014; it is a wonderful musical about how a society treats outsiders. I also just learned about a theatre company in Fullerton, Maverick Theater. They are doing Evil Dead: The Musical , which is a hoot if you’ve never seen it (we’ve seen it twice). They also have some interesting other stuff on their season, and we might drive down for Santa Claus Vs The Martians in November.
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River: Remembering the FlowerCat: 72nd Birthday
Today is Colleen's 72nd birthday. I'm having cheese and crackers for lunch, and expect to be having gin-and-tonic before dinner, then Szechuan Chinese, with green tea. It's about as close as I can come to our old household traditions.
My birthday was Wednesday; if we'd been back at the Starport in San Jose we would have had our usual open house, with pizza and assorted cheeses. Here I had the pizza on Thursday (Pi day), and the cheese today.
Today would have been the "It's Green" potluck party; we would have had Green Rooster beer, corned beef and cabbage, and a chocolate cake with creme-de-menth iceing. The invitations included the line "As usual, it's from Noon 'til Midnight (or later!) -- drop in any time; no need to RSVP; kids, friends, and musical instruments welcome." There were/are quite a few people in the household with birthdays in March.
It was Colleen, mostly, who made the potluck parties and Wednesday open houses legendary. I mostly hung out in either the kitchen or my office, talking with a few people at a time, which was all I could handle. Introvert.
Sadly few, if any, of our household traditions survived the move to Seattle. And if they had, they wouldn't have survived two subsequent moves and COVID-19. I don't think either of us realized just how big a support group we had left behind.
No success like failure
From which you may deduce that he continues to improve. He is still hooked up to the oxygen supply, but they are reducing the concentration; today he decided to get dressed. He is in touch with his e-mail, keeping an eye on the FB group of which he is one of the moderators, making notes of a work task he will not be able to do, and which I will need to tackle.
And it's good news, too, that he has a diagnosis: though it could be a better diagnosis. The left ventricle of his heart is under-performing, which is technically heart failure. He has been given a red pamphlet called something along the lines of 'What to do when you have been told you have heart failure'. Strangely, there wasn't room on the cover for the words DON'T PANIC, but that seems to be the tone of the text (he hasn't yet managed to get hold of another copy for me), and I am doing my best to obey that instruction.
He is in the right place: they are trying out different medication, and he is receiving lots of attention. Today he was thinking that they might send him home towards the end of next week, but I'll take one day at a time.
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I wish I could sleep comfortably on my back, specifically because it would give the gherkin an extra eight hours to cuddle me, but we both must settle for her curling up against my spine (I'm a side sleeper).
Jenn has a friend visiting. Friend has a dog.
Friend had to visit his parents, who are allergic to dogs, so we've got her, and I've never appreciated our small dogs more than on this walk.
Interesting Links for 16-03-2024
- 1. Why NHS England puberty blockers decision fails trans teens
- (tags:transgender teenagers NHS UK OhForFucksSake )
- 2. Diane Abbott 'refused to take antisemitism training to return to Labour' as an MP
- (tags:racism labour UK politics )
- 3. Why improving traffic around the M25 is so hard
- (tags:London roads transport )
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Gideon's first time on top of Blackford Hill.
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The further adventures of
durham_rambler
As soon as they had him hooked up to an oxygen supply, he started to feel better. He has been extensively scanned and measured, and enjoyed, everytime he was asked his date of birth, being able to give it, with the comment that "Yesterday was my birthday!" which earned him plenty of extra birthday wishes - in which context, I should thank everyone who left greetings for him in my previous post: I have pointed him in that direction! He was transferred within the day to the ward adjacent to A&E, and is still there, still on oxygen, though he now has a portable cylinder, which means he is able to visit the bathroom, which has cheered him up considerably. He was also allowed to shower, though unplugging him from the oxygen left him a little breathless.
D. has persisted with his planned visit, and been immensely helpful about driving me to and from the hospital. I sent him out to shop for his own breakfast requirements, since shopping was part of the post-birthday outing plan which we had to abandon. Another abandoned plan was for the three of us to join D.'s sister and brother-in-law for lunch at the High Force Hotel and possibly a walk after. I have sent D. off to do this on his own, and I will visit
I asked
We live from hour to hour, visiting time to visiting time. He has his phone, and a whole tangle of chargers, only two of which he actually needs. He can call me with updates, and he does. He has ordered fish and chips for lunch, and solved three clues of yesterday's crossword. So it goes.
- batteries,
- bigotry,
- china,
- cities,
- complaints,
- design,
- disease,
- diversity,
- drought,
- europe,
- fiction,
- food,
- games,
- gender,
- globalwarming,
- harassment,
- honesty,
- humans,
- immune_system,
- lgbt,
- links,
- microbiome,
- neilgaiman,
- ohforfuckssake,
- plants,
- privacy,
- regulation,
- research,
- scotland,
- society,
- technology,
- thefuture,
- transgender,
- water,
- women,
- work,
- writing
Interesting Links for 15-03-2024
- 1. The financial burden of tackling climate change will fall disproportionately on Scotland
- (tags:scotland globalwarming )
- 2. The Violence Of Relentless Positivity In The Workplace (or: "Negativity is an expensive signal of honesty")
- (tags:work honesty complaints )
- 3. Why women are at greater risk of autoimmune disease
- (tags:immune_system women disease )
- 4. The Small Company at the Center of 'Gamergate 2.0'
- (tags:harassment games writing Diversity bigotry OhForFucksSake )
- 5. Review of "Who's Afraid of Gender?" by Judith Butler - An urgent counter to trans panic
- (tags:gender society )
- 6. Urban humans have lost much of their ability to digest plants
- (tags:humans microbiome plants food )
- 7. How Michael Sheen met Neil Gaiman, and the mystery they ate when they did
- (tags:neilgaiman food )
- 8. Next-gen battery tech: Reimagining every aspect of batteries
- (tags:batteries Technology thefuture research )
- 9. There is no EU cookie banner law
- (tags:europe regulation privacy )
- 10. A Diversity of Novels with Transgender Protagonists
- (tags:transgender lgbt fiction )
- 11. The Designer Who's Trying to Transform Your City Into a Sponge
- (tags:water cities china design drought )
Not enough of an update
++ doctor can help
-- SIX surgeries and that is all before we can do the hip. And completely ignores the knees, which will also have to get done at sone point sooner rather than later.
-- OMG this is going to be nuts expensive
--- I have to pay out of pocket in advance
+++ Thanks to the fact that I am on the expensive health plan at Major NonProfit I only have a $1500 max out of pocket for out of network care so ONG expensive should actually be, essentially, free.
--- I will have to pay and submit for reimbursement. If they agree it's medically necessary. Otherwise I am screwed.
---- This many surgeries and costs may cause Major NonProfit to reconsider their self-insured status.
??? Though in the grand scheme of surgical costs maybe it's not so much?
??? But I don't think they expected to spend so much on one patient
Good lord I could keep this up for hours.
Thankful Thursday
Today I am grateful for...
- The healing power of stories and storytelling. Stories in general, really.
- MASKS. Also C-R boxes.
- Pi Day. Which is also the International Day of Mathematics! Cool! Also the local pizza joint that has a "buy one 11-inch pie, get another for $3.14" special today.
- Yesterday, birthday cake. Also drunken chicken with wine on the side.
- Bling.